已经翻译完毕，译文是紫红色部分，有兴趣的朋友可一阅。
另外学习音乐方面，这一段：
他也喜欢改编乐曲，老师让他都演奏出来并比较其优劣。
感觉很好，晴宝宝也会这样做，以前都会忽略掉，其实改编是个感受音乐的好办法，可以让她的老师也尝试下引导她做比较。
首先感谢博友Siee，她非常辛苦的帮忙整理国外星星父母们的聊天记录并贴过来（因为这边无法登陆该网站），我们仅在网络上有偶然一次的相遇，也丝毫没有提起女儿的情况，siee却如此古道热肠，实在令人感动。有了许多像这样的朋友----他们怀着一颗宽容心一份对生命的爱-----使我备受鼓舞，我想我是对的，我需以爱回报爱。
下面是星妈们的对话，感觉相比我们的情况，他们更阳光更乐观，少了许多焦虑和绝望。因为我也参加一些QQ群和论坛，相较下的差异还是很明显的，特别是刚刚在某坛子上看到又一位星星母亲坠楼而去（愿逝者安息），更加感慨了。再想想她留在人间的小星星可怎么办？唉，不说了。。。另外他们看待Autism似乎也更本真，读之颇有感悟，相信对我以及很多这样的家庭都十分有意义，非常期待更多的内容------那就麻烦siee常来帮忙贴贴了 
相关的记录，中英混合，大多数明白，等得空了，都译出来，有几处不甚了了，再请教siee了。先问第一个问题：张那实是谁有何典故（网上没查到呀）？谢谢答疑解惑哈！
Re: 家有自闭儿
不知道专家咋说。不过只好多带他游山玩水见识社会。往好里想，他没准儿能成为超级天才，张那实那样的人呢。
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我原来以为天才孩子就该是这种形象, 有天赋, 不和群.
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他现在有兴趣和人家玩. 问题是玩儿什么.
We do play board games at home.
The improvement is that sometimes, he will hang around other kids, without joining in their play, but laugh and jump with them.
It is soooo hard to teach the someone the most basic stuff. Can you imagine how to teach a kid to say NO? (it took the school and us more than 4 months). But it only took him 2 weeks from the day he started piano lesson to write his first piece of music!
我们在家里下棋。
改善的是，有时，他会跟着别的孩子，虽没有参与游戏，但会和他们一起大笑和跳跃。
教他最基本的东西难极了。你能想像如何教孩子说不？（教会他花了我们和学校4个月以上）。但他只用了2个星期，就从钢琴入门课飞越至写出他的第一部音乐作品！
四维 写道:
我在那线猜对了。
高功能自闭的特点是样样都要教。人家能模仿，他们必须教才行，但好处是能教会的。
他现在有兴趣和人家玩吗？有兴趣没能力可教，没兴趣就难一些。玩电子游戏没什么用，下棋之类可能更好一些？
引文:
那就一样样教他这些事情吧。
朋友有个孩子十几岁，非常有礼貌，懂事。 他父母说这些都是教出来的， 他原来也有个什么病（不是自闭），特殊教育了好些年，现基本正常了。
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We took him travel with us quite a bit. The line between a genius and a fool is very thin. I do not know what he will be.....
我们常带他旅行。天才和傻瓜之间仅一线之隔，我不知道他的将来会怎样.....
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可我真不知道该怎么教他和别人说话。这是个非常复杂的概念呢
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What did his music teacher think about his music talent? He seems to be so gifted.
他的音乐老师怎么想他的音乐才华？他似乎如此有天分。
岩雨 写道:
It only took him 2 weeks from the day he started piano lesson to write his first piece of music!
只用了2个星期，就从钢琴入门课飞越至写出他的第一部音乐作品！
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I think you know more about autism than 95% of us already.
Just keep your patience and try your best. I don't think kids just grow out of autism by themselves, but they can improve greatly. You have a very bright child.
There is a 4 year old autistic boy in my son's preschool. I have seen him improve so much. His mom is always in the classroom helping him follow the class routines. She quit her job after the little boy was diagnosed with autism at age of 2.
我想你对自闭症的了解已经超过我们中的95％。只要保持耐心，尽力而为。我不认为自闭症孩子能够自愈，但他们可以有很大改善。你有一个非常聪明的孩子。有一个4岁的自闭症男孩和我儿子上同一个学前班。我目睹了他的巨大进步。他的妈妈总是在旁辅助他跟上教学安排。小男孩在2岁时诊断为孤独症后她就辞职了。
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She is totally amazed by it. She changed his piano books three weeks in a row, from basic kiddy book to "real" sheet music, and by the end of second month, she told me that she can't teach him composing.
My son can easily point out the typos in the music (missing # or b, notes on the wrong position, etc.) He also like to re-arrange the music and the teacher will let him play both to see which arrangement sounds better. He can sign read almost any music by now (he has been taking lessions for about 9 months, Jan to now minus 3 month in the summer) and play songs with complicated rhythms. Right now, his book arranges from level 5-7, and he composes several piece a week (if he feels like it. Sometime, he will not write anything for a few weeks).
He amazes me since he was one year old----on both front....smart end and slow end....
她（孩子的钢琴老师）感到十分惊讶。她每三个星期就得升级一次他的钢琴课本，从基础的幼儿琴书到“真正的”整页乐谱，并在第二个月底，她告诉我，她已没有能力教他作曲了。
我的儿子可以轻易指出乐谱中的错误（缺少＃升记号或b降记号，或标在了错误的位置等），他也喜欢改编乐曲，老师让他都演奏出来并比较其优劣。他几乎可以读任何乐谱（他已经学习了约9个月，1月至现在）并演奏旋律十分复杂的音乐。目前他在学习5-7级的钢琴课本，每周撰写几件音乐小品（如果他觉得喜欢。有时，他也会几个星期什么都不写）。
从一岁开始他就让我感到吃惊------有两方面：开始时的格外聪慧和现在的发展缓慢....
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凌霄,
I debate a lot whether should I quite my job....
I was home around 3pm (when he finishes school) most of this year. Right now, I found him a sitter who is a special ed teacher in his school(since my company will not let me leave 3:00 pm every day anymore. My son was with me in my office for more than 2 months until I found the sitter).
His school will not let me involved in the classroom. I can't even go observe, except open school days.
My son has improve a lot as well, from can't even answer an yes/no question to have sort of a real conversation with us. But as a parent, you know how parents feel, I still worried that he is be hand.
Yes, we will be patience. The lucky part is that he is a very easy going kid, always cheerful and happy and with a good sense of humor (can you imagine someone who can't really talk being humorous? )
我对是否该辞职讨论了很多....
今年大部分时间我是下午3点左右回家（当他放学）。现在，我替他找了他学校的特教老师来看护他（因为我的公司不同意我每天下午3时下班了。找到保姆前，有2个多月，我的儿子放学后只能和我待在办公室）
他的学校不允许我陪读，除了学校开放日我也不能去观看上学的情况。
尽管我的儿子有很大改善，从不能回答是/否到与我们真正的交谈。但作为一个家长，你知道父母的感觉，我还是担心。
是的，我们应当耐心。幸运的是他是一个很随和的孩子，永远快乐，幸福的和富有幽默感（你能想象一个话都说不好的人很幽默吗？）
家长一点通:
